Dear Angie,
When my husband and I have sex, I find myself fantasizing. I’m not fantasizing about an old boyfriend or anyone I know; it’s just an anonymous man who ravishes my body. I don’t know why I do it, because my husband is great in bed.
How do I stop?
Signed, Wandering Mind
Dear Wanderer,
I’m not sure why you do it either. In fact, it doesn’t make any sense.
My diagnosis: You’re a nympho.
Old-fashioned sex with a good lover isn’t enough for you, apparently. You have to step up the sexual energy by imagining that a man is ravishing your body.
I would recommend nipping this in the bud so that you can go back to actually enjoying your husband’s love-making skills. Of course, you could try to spice things up in the bedroom (or any room, for that matter) by encouraging your husband to ravish your body.
Love, Angie
